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The Tools


Eating Disorder Relapse Prevention Planning & MEET THE BENEDETTO'S
Prevent eating disorder relapse with effective planning. Learn how to identify warning signs, create a safety plan, & empower your supports.


Counteracting Gaslighting & EXCAVATIONS by Katie Myers
Counteracting Gaslighting: Learn how to recognize red flags, connect with others for validation, and trust yourself to combat manipulation.


Increasing Healthy Communication To Stop Under-Communicating and WHAT WILD WOMEN DO by Karma Brown
Learn to increase healthy communication and stop under-communicating. Tips for expressing needs, setting boundaries, & resolving conflict.


Reducing Confirmation Bias and THE MUSEUM OF FAILURES by Thrity Umrigar
Learn about confirmation bias and how it distorts perspective. Includes tips to reduce the impact of confirmation bias.


Resolving Disenfranchised Grief and THE GUNCLE by Steven Rowley
Resolving Disenfranchised Grief: Learn how to navigate the unrecognized and unprocessed mourning, find support, and create healing rituals.


Improving Sibling Relationships and HELLO BEAUTIFUL by Ann Napolitano
Discover ways to improve sibling relationships. Learn how to accept, play in the present, and avoid comparisons.


Turn Towards To Strengthen Relationships and JUST ANOTHER MISSING PERSON by Gillian McCallister
Julia’s career as a Detective Chief means clocking long hours and focusing on the scariest parts of society. Julia’s daughter, Genevieve,...


Sharing The Mental Load and THE WIFE APP by Carolyn Mackler
Sharing the mental load takes work. Learn practical tips for a fair division of tasks. Read 'The Wife App' by Carolyn Mackler for examples.


Coping Skills to Stop Dissociation and THE GUEST by Emma Cline
Learn effective coping skills to stop dissociation, using examples of dissociation from the book THE GUEST by Emma Cline.


Escaping The Comparison Trap and CHARM CITY ROCKS by Matthew Norman
Discover coping skills to escape the comparison trap in this engaging blog post inspired by "Charm City Rocks" by Matthew Norman.


Healing From Discrimination and THE HEAVEN & EARTH GROCERY STORE by James McBride
Healing From Discrimination: Learn how to cope, take action and be the change in this mental health blog post.


Prepare for Holidays in Early Eating Disorder Recovery & FAMILY MEAL by Bryan Washington
Prepare for the holidays in early eating disorder recovery with these tips. Learn how to navigate triggering situations & receive support.


Forgiveness and MY GRANDMOTHER ASKED ME TO TELL YOU SHE’S SORRY by Fredrik Backman
We’ve all been wronged. You don’t get to decide how another person treats you. But you can choose forgiveness. Here's how.


Difficult Conversations and AMAZING GRACE ADAMS by Fern Littlewood
People dread difficult conversations. Avoiding these talks leads to problems growing, not disappearing. Read for tips on hard discussions.


Alternative Rebellion and TRUE BIZ by Sara Nović
The idea of alternate rebellion is that you can't change your situation, but you can manage your outcomes by responding less destructively.


Start Something New and WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IS IN THE LIBRARY By Michiko Aoyama
Many people stay in situations that make them unhappy because of a fear of change. Here are tips to overcome doubts and start something new.


Increasing Optimism and LATE BLOOMERS by Deepa Varadarajan
Mindset affects how we interpret events, with optimists less stressed and happier than pessimists. Here are tips for increasing optimism.


Grounding Techniques and THE FLATSHARE by Beth O'Leary
Learn grounding techniques, skills that help refocus your brain to the present when facing overwhelming or distressing feelings.


Cultivating Unconditional Self-Acceptance and GIRLS AND THEIR HORSES by Eliza Jane Brazier
Tips for Cultivating Unconditional Self-Acceptance for people who continually ask themselves, "Am I good enough?"


Improve Body Image and THE BREAKAWAY by Jennifer Weiner
Name something you love and something you hate about your body. If it was easier to list negatives, read on for tips to improve body image.
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